When I graduated from college, I was surrounded by my favorite people in the whole world.
My Mom
Mom raised my sisters and me as a single parent. She balanced teaching school and taking care of us. It was a lot to manage. I know some days it was a struggle to keep all the balls in the air. Some days she could have used four or five extra hands to get all the balls from falling.
My Dad
Dad came on Sundays to take us to museums or to visit his mom (my Gigi) or to go on hikes. He loved books, art, the theater and exploring the great outdoors. He shared his joy of them with us and much of it rubbed off. A passion for modern art only rubbed off on my youngest sister.
My Sisters
Kate and Michelle have always been my closest friends and encouragers. We shared a room for many years when we lived in an apartment following my parent’s divorce. By the time we were in high school and we knew just want to do to get the others attention and on each other’s nerves. Going off to college had been a good time for us to grow up and grow back to each other.
My Maternal Grandmother
Gigi generously paid for two years of my college education. I probably would have had to get loans if she hadn’t provided the much need funds.
She was a serious and proper lady. When I visited her, she expected me to act like a proper lady. She never understood why my mom let me wear sneakers and play in the mud. In her world girls sat on couches and read books wearing dresses.
My Adopted Grandparents
The church I attended in college has a program called Adopt-A –Student that assigned students to older members of the church. I was blessed to be matched up with the Greene’s.
Mr. Greene had to watch his sugar levels but, Mrs. Greene would always make dessert if I was going over for Sunday dinner. I went to their house often for dinner.
They had dated as young adults, but didn’t end up getting married until much later. They taught me so much about what a joyful marriage should be. Mrs. Greene advised me to wait until I was ready to get married. I bet she would have never guessed it would take me so long to be read.
Under the hot sun of Virginia in May I crossed in front of them on a raised stage set up in front of one of the dorms.
I was so happy to have them all there to witness this wonderful event. I was so blessed to have each of them in my life.
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Lisa @ Two Bears Farm says
What a neat story. I love the idea of adopted grandparents. A young person can never have too many people of positive influence in life!
Queenie Jeannie says
Sounds like you had a wonderful, loving support network growing up!!
Lola says
Hi again and great post!
Apologies. Bit late again this week – been so busy lately!
Thank you so much for stopping by and look forward to *seeing* you again soon.
Hope you have a good weekend,
XOXO Lola )
Karen Greenberg says
That sounds like a great support system for you! I’m glad you had so many people around to share such a neat part of life.
I remember my graduation like it was yesterday. Wait, it was darn close to BEING yesterday. Actually, it was a month ago. At the age of 36, I finally graduated college. My mom, dad, husband, and two children attended the ceremony, then I had many friends and relatives at the party the next day. I felt so blessed to be so supported!
I know I am so super excited about my accomplishment that I want to share it with everyone. If you are interested in more details, you can read about it here: http://karenshealthylifestyle.blogspot.com/2011/04/graduation.html
Raising a Happy Child says
It’s great that you can talk highly of both of your parents even after the divorce. I was getting married (my first marriage, not my current marriage) just around my graduation time, and it was in a different country, so graduation was a blur. I can’t even remember whether we had a ceremony or not. Pathetic, isn’t it?
~ Noelle says
what a neat way each person impacted your life!!! love it!!!
how funny that you posted this, as i was looking at my college graduation photos the other day!
laughwithusblog says
I had adopted grandparents in highschool! The only problem was that the man LOVED me, but the lady…not so much! 🙂