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By Deirdre




By Deirdre

Years ago my aunt made a Christmas themed God’s eye as a gift for my mom. When I tried to come up with some Christmassy to hang in my mom’s hospital room, that craft from long ago came to mind. God’s eyes are said to have the power to see and understand things unknown. I am not sure that the weaving that I created with yarn has the power to do that. I do believe the God does.

By Deirdre

Crayola Washable Window Markers, Car Window Markers, 8 Count were given to JDaniel for his birthday. He has loved drawing on the kitchen windows with them. I love how easily they clean up.
Rhode Island Novelty Classic Toy Soldiers in Assorted Poses 144 Pieceswere in JDaniel’s stocking last year. He loves building structures for the soldiers fight from. They have also been great to take into the woods to play with.
Toysmith Magnifying Bug ViewerToysmith Magnifying Bug Viewer is great for containing bugs that you want to view up close. I love that you can put an interesting object ( flower, rock, shell, etc..) into the container and look at it up close with having to hold it in your hand or put in on a hard surface.
Firefly Kids Toothbrush, Soft – Kylo Ren Lightsaber has been one of our favorite toothbrushes. I love that it reminds me of how long we need to brush (Yes, I help my son brush his teeth.) and JDaniel loves that the brush looks like a light saber.
These are some of my favorite stocking stuffer ideas.
What do you like to put in your children’s stockings?

By Deirdre

I haven’t had as much time this year to make JDaniel special Christmas meals and snacks. What with going back to work and my mom being in the hospital things have been hectic and crazy. I decided rather than share a new Christmas meal or snack for kids with you I would share some of my favorites from previous years.
A layered Christmas tree lunch is made of rows of various finger foods for children. The layers could have been served in ham and cheese crackers with grapes and yogurt, but this was more fun.
Last year we made buche de Noel rolls as part of a study of Christmas in France.
A Christmas pasta wreath made from many colored tortellini was served as a snack that both JDaniel and I enjoyed.
A reindeer lunch was served in a bento box along with foods that a reindeer might like to eat.
Last year I served my family a Bethlehem dinner featuring foods like would have been available during the time of Christ in Bethlehem. We each pulled the foods we wanted to try of the various plates and bowls.
Angels are mentioned over and over in the Christmas story as messengers of good news. JDaniel was given an angels we had for lunch meal filled with angels to celebrate them.
A gingerbread man on the loose snack featured raisin bran in a gingerbread cookie cutter with wonderful treat to add to it.
What are you favorite Christmas meals or snacks?

By Deirdre

Cookie cutters and creating gingerbread men with Model Magic just seemed to come together as an idea on our way home. I didn’t tell him what I was thinking, though. The brown modeling dough was pushed into cookie cutters and set out to dry without a word to him.

On Saturday I set out the dried gingerbread men and various odds and ends that could be used to decorate and redecorate them. JDaniel’s eyes lit up. He was really surprised.
I had made holes in the gingerbread men with the end of a pencil thinking the odds and ends would fit into them. Some of the odds and ends ended up being a little too big. Thankfully the Model Magic has some give to it. JDaniel was able to push in the buttons when he wanted too.

He made all different kinds of gingerbread men that day. Some had button eyes and others had stars in their eyes. The rubbery dough held up despite the number of times it was used.

By Deirdre



I think our candy cane reindeer Christmas craft is as cute as the ones I saw on display in hallway at school. Our little deer herd has only two deer as opposed to the large herd that is displayed in the hall at school though. Maybe you could make some candy cane reindeer at your house and we could have a virtual herd.
If you decided to make candy cane reindeer, let me know on the Facebook post featuring this craft. You can paste an Instagram link to a picture of yours if you like.


By Deirdre

The idea for branch bracelets came to me as we were decorating our Christmas tree last week. When we came to a kid made ornament that JDaniel had created himself, he face just lit up. He was so proud of each kid made ornament he had made in preschool or with me at home. It occurred to me that we hadn’t made any new ornament this year and we really needed to. I remembered creating spider web ornaments last year with him and how much he enjoyed weaving the yarn up and down though Christmas cutouts that had been punched with holes. This year’s kid-made ornament needed to have weaving be a part of it.
When I went to school the next day, the kids were all wearing homemade bracelets. Why not my brain thought make branch bracelets for our tree what incorporate JDaniel’s interest in weaving through hole punched holes.
When I go home a noticed a small pile of empty paper towel tubes, they were just waiting to be taken out to the recycling bin in the garage. (I take care of sorting through what we recycle and what could be possible craft item.) Sections of an old paper towel tube would make wonderful branch bracelet Christmas tree ornaments I thought.
With the materials and idea decided on I set everything we would need out on the kitchen table for JDaniel to find. He instantly understood that the craft idea was to randomly punch holes into the section of tube and then weave ribbon through it.

I explained that there wasn’t a right or wrong way to make a branch bracelet ornament, but I did show him the one I made. He was thrilled about using the hole punch and quickly had holes all over the tubes. It took a little longer to decide to which holes to weave through. Honestly, I don’t think there was a plan.
After creating two branch bracelets, he declared the remaining tubes sections and ribbon needed to be used to create a sculpture for under the tree. Who knew that we would end up with kid made branch bracelet ornaments and a free form sculpture by the time our crafting time was done. (To see what the sculpture looks like you will need to visit our Facebook page.)I explained that there wasn’t a right or wrong way to make a branch bracelet ornament, but I did show him the one I made. He was thrilled about using the hole punch and quickly had holes all over the tubes. It took a little longer to decide to which holes to weave through. Honestly, I don’t think there was a plan.

By Deirdre

Every year my sister Shell sends my son an Advent calendar with chocolate pieces tuck behind its tiny doors. He loves it. JDaniel looks forward to hearing scripture verse behind each door while he is enjoying a piece of milk chocolate every morning. Why not come up with something special for us to do in the evening each night during Advent I thought when the box delivering this year’s Advent calendar arrived. That is when the seed of thought for the Advent activity 25 Blessings started to grow.
I had to think through what I wanted our family to do for our 25 blessings and if it needed to be something beyond offering prayers of Thanksgiving. After thinking about it for awhile, I decided that I would offer up an area or person for us to be thankful for and a list of ways we could show our thanks for that area or person in our lives.
My family has been blessed in so many ways this year along with having many challenges. This year my husband lost his job and went back to school. I searched and searched for a job and found one at a wonderful school in early November. JDaniel started kindergarten and found going to school five days a week full time wasn’t something to dread.
We have been blessed with an amazing family, friends and church that has supported us with prayers, listening ears, and emotional support through the challenges we have encountered with all those changes. They have truly helped us is make it through this year.
There have been troubles with an aging house and cars. Thankfully our immediate family is aging well. (My husband did back issues earlier this year, but it is much better.) Both our mom’s had health scares early in year and seem to be much better now. JDaniel’s fall allergies seem to have disappeared and only his spring ones remain.
Why did I tell you all this before sharing my list? I thought it might help some of the things on my list make more sense.
Here is the list of advent calendar ideas or blessings and the day we will be rejoicing and remembering them:

You could easily adapt this to your family. Simply sit down and make a list of things you are thankful for or have blessed you. You will have 2 areas or people in no time at all. I tried to include things in the following areas:
Then all you need to do is come up with ways you want to rejoice in those blessings or advent calendar ideas. You are more than welcome to use our list of ways.
I printed out our blessings and ways to celebrate onto an envelope and index cards. They could have simply been written out.

By Deirdre

JDaniel has a four year old’s a simple faith in God. He knows you can lift of prayers to God no matter where you care. I loved hearing him last week as he prayed for a sunny day warm enough to play outside in. He knows that God is everywhere. JDaniel has informed that He even stays with him in his room. He knows God made all things. JDaniel can’t wrap his brain around why God made ants, but he thinks it is cool that God didn’t need a microscope to make microorganisms.
The first Christmas wish is that we will have a simple faith just like JDaniel. A faith that lifts up prayers and knows that God can answer them. Just last week I heard him praying in his room for a really warm day without rain. He was thrilled that we got two beautifully warm days in a row. JDaniel recently prayed for me on the ride to school last Monday. He said I needed to not have worried voice.You need to have a happy voice I was told.
My final wish would be that we would each find a way to give something to someone else each day this year. A simple smile or “How are you?” to a friend or stranger. A phone call to your spouse to tell them that you love them. Holding the door open for someone or giving quarter to the customer in front of you at a store that is a few cents short on their grocery bill. Even a wave given to the mail carrier could really make there day.
Fine Motor Christmas Activities

By Deirdre
