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Deirdre Smith writes/owns JDaniel4’s Mom. After twenty years as a elementary school and technology resource teacher in Northern Virginia, she became a stay at home mom in upstate South Carolina. Her blog features ways she and her 5 year old are exploring learning, crafting, creating healthy meals and living life to its fullest. Deirdre can also be found on twitter as @jdaniel4smom and on her blog's FB page. You can also check her out on Google+.
By Deirdre
By Deirdre
I had it in my head that this week’s Muffin Tin Meal needed to be a manger scene. It was hard to wrap my brain around how to make it happen. Some weeks it is really easy to put together lunch.
If you like this manger lunch, here are some other food creations we have had at my house.
Apple Chicken Salad Bento Lunch
Minion Lunch with Blueberry Overalls
By Deirdre
When I was little, there was a lot of joy when Sears Wishbook would arrive at our house.
My sisters and I had to take turns looking through the toy section. It filled many hours of our time. Every toy we could possibly think of was in it.
I think we were patient while the other two looked through it. It must have been hard though.
My mom would let us pick one toy out of the section to get for Christmas. We usually got a couple of other things too, but the toy from the Wishbook was the “big gift”.
Choosing a big gift was a huge decision! If you made the wrong choice, you ended up with a dud gift while the others enjoyed theirs.
JDaniel spent hours looking through catalogs and Sunday paper ads to create his wishlist.
I know he is getting some of the things on his wishlist. I am hoping and praying that many other children do too.
How this link up works:
There are so many in need during this Christmas season. I am hoping you will join me in giving to others in your community or beyond this holiday season.
Each week I will feature a way my family is giving to our community during the month of December. I am hoping each of you will take the time to not only give to your community but to write a blog post about it. If you do, I would love for you to link it up below and include a link to this post or this badge.
My posts will go on Sundays, but feel free to share your giving post any day of the week that works for you. The link-up will be available during the rest of the month of December and will appear on every Giving Others Christmas post.
What did we do?
We took some toys to the Toys for Tots bin at our local Big Lots. I really love the organization and it was on my way to JDaniel’s preschool.
By Deirdre
Welcome to Read.Explore.Learn.! This meme was designed to be a place for you to share the learning opportunities, crafts, field trips, and other activities you have done this week that tie-in to children’s books. I look forward to seeing ways you have learned with and explored books.
Steps:
I am featuring two very special Christmas books this week about Christmas trees. I love them both.
The first is called The Little Fir Tree by Margaret Wise Brown. It is an amazingly moving book about a tree that is dug up every winter just in time for Christmas to be taken to a little boy who is bedridden. When Christmas is over he is returned to the woods to grow and wait.
The tree looks forward to making this special trip be part of the celebration while the seasons come and go.
One year the man doesn’t come and the tree starts to worry and dislike the now frozen world around him. As Christmas nears the man comes with the whole family including the little boy walking on his own.
The tree gets to celebrate Christmas in his home this year bedecked with berries, apples, and cookies!
The second book is called Night Tree by Eve Bunting. One Christmas Eve as a family sets out into the woods to find a tree.
When they find the perfect tree, they decorate it with popcorn, apples, sunflower seed balls, and tangerines for the animals that live in the woods to feast on. They spread breadcrumbs beneath the tree as well as nuts and apples.
After the decorating is done the family spreads out a blanket and sings songs while sipping on hot chocolate.
When they finish, they pack up their things and leave the tree for the animals to enjoy!
Both of these books have wonderful illustrations and messages. I hope you get the opportunity to read them both during the Christmas season.
What did we do?
Decorated a JDaniel’s Tree
When JDaniel was six months, old my husband planted a tree for him. It is still small and so it is easy for JDaniel to help decorate.
I strung together a cranberry garland for his tree and JDaniel created decorated pinecones with peanut butter and bird seeds.
This post is linked to Feed Me Books Friday, Link and Learn, Let’s BEE Friends, La La Home Daycare and It’s Playtime.
By Deirdre
This is the first year we have done a full-size tree for Christmas. In previous years we have done small tabletop trees that JDaniel couldn’t topple. I wrote about last year’s tree in a post called Maybe This Tree Will Grow Next Year.
JDaniel was super excited about selecting a tree. We visited several stores to find just the right one. He lobbied hard for a bright blue tree, but we ended up settling on a traditional green one.
After setting up the tree, we hung up some of our non-breakable ornaments along with the ones we have made while doing the Truth in the Tinsel curriculum and some homemade ornaments.
The tree was missing something. It needed something on top of the tree. We hadn’t looked for a star, dove, or angel while looking for the tree so, we had to head out again to find a tree topper.
JDaniel fell hard for a multicolored star that lit up and since I hadn’t given on the blue tree. I went with the star he picked out. When we brought it home and tried it on the tree, the top of the tree began to lean toward the floor and the star decided to not stay stationary on top of the tree.
JDaniel was so disappointed. He really loved the star, but it had to go back in the box.
I decided to create a game out of our star search by having him search for things around the house we could use on top of the tree. It was raining that afternoon and cold I really didn’t want to head out and start the tree topper search again.
He came back within ten minutes with a box loaded with things for us to try.
We tried:
What is on top of your tree?
By Deirdre
By Deirdre
If you are looking for an honest and fun post about parenting and life in general, you do need to visit today’s guest. Grumpy Grateful Mom is a wonderful writer, a fun mom, a great blogging friend, and a commenter of many posts on many blogs.
I feel so blessed to have her comments on my posts regularly and am so excited that she is here today.
I love being a mom to my four kids. But there’s also something else I love, bedtime!
So last week, it was a little painful, but we paused our normal bedtime routine in exchange for a tradition I’ve been meaning to start for years. We got the kids in their pajamas and told them the first part of our plan.
The chipper faces vanished and were replaced with the saddest little expressions. Then, they turned against us.
My oldest three all complained and gave excuses why this was NOT a good present. After about fifteen minutes, my kids were finally resigned to their terrible fate; surprisingly, they were in their beds much faster than a usual night.
My husband and I then raced back into their room and turned on the lights.
“Get up! Get up! We’re going for a drive!”
JDaniel would so love to have been at her house on this night! What a great treat!
By Deirdre
By Deirdre
Before I tell you about this link up and share with you what we did this week, I want to tell you a story:
A mother in her early thirties stands in line at a grocery store ready to checkout. She glances at her groceries on the conveyer belt silently adding their cost up in her head. The total will come close to the cash she has in her wallet. It might go a little over. She hopes it won’t.
When the cashier finally finishes ringing up the total , it is a little over what she has.
“ I think we can do without this”, she says handing one of the items to the cashier.
“All right,” responded the cashier looking as frustrated as the mother before her. She wishes she could make the groceries fit the money the mom has in her wallet. It isn’t as if the mom is purchasing junk food or extras. The bagging area holds fruit, milk, inexpensive meat, vegetables, and a couple loaves of bread. Groceries the three children standing beside her are going to need grow and be healthy.
The mother hands over what remains in her wallet on this day near end on the month. She hopes that this won’t happen again. It is embarrassing and humbling. She hates that her girls have to see this.
This mom works hard to provide for her girls. She spends her days teaching other people’s children in a public school. She pinches her pennies and uses coupons. She makes sure her girls’ basic needs are met. There just isn’t money for extras and sometimes at the end of the month there just isn’t enough for all basics.
This is a true story.
I was one of those little girls standing beside my mom in the grocery line. It was the mid-seventies and grocery stores took only cash where we lived. You could only spend what you had. We had the basics. My mom made sure of that, but there just weren’t extras.
Even with tight times my mom taught us that there were others much worse off. She instilled in us the need to give them. I so want Jdaniel to become someone who looks out for others too.
How this link up works:
There are so many in need during this Christmas season. I am hoping you will join me in giving to others in your community or beyond this holiday season.
Each week I will feature a way my family is giving to our community during the month of December. I am hoping each of you will take the time to not only give to your community, but to write a blog post about it. If you do, I would love for you to link it up below and include a link to this post or this badge.
My posts will go on Sundays, but feel free to share your giving post any day of the week that works for you. The link up will be available during the rest of the month of December and will appear on every Giving Others Christmas post.
What did we do?
This week JDaniel and I just went to the grocery store to give to others this week. BI-Lo is the grocery store closest to our house and it also happens to be a big supporter of our favorite food pantry at the Golden Strip Emergency Relief and Resource Agency.
BI-LO has put together food boxes for you to buy filled with wonderful things that the food pantry visitor will need. You just purchase the box and they deliver it to the Golden Strip Emergency Relief and Resource Agency for you.
I give to the food pantry monthly and love that BI-Lo has made it easier to purchase and drop off the food for me.
Thankfully we haven’t needed to visit the food pantry ourselves, but there are many this year that have. They have lots of visitors.
What have you done to give Christmas to others this week?
By Deirdre