

growing & learning with him
Deirdre Smith writes/owns JDaniel4’s Mom. After twenty years as a elementary school and technology resource teacher in Northern Virginia, she became a stay at home mom in upstate South Carolina. Her blog features ways she and her 5 year old are exploring learning, crafting, creating healthy meals and living life to its fullest. Deirdre can also be found on twitter as @jdaniel4smom and on her blog's FB page. You can also check her out on Google+.
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By Deirdre
Sometimes you read a blog and you just connect with the blogger’s words and writing style. That happened when I first visited From Corporate to Domestic. I love what she says and I love how she says it. Natalie is an amazing mom, wonderful blogger and fabulous commenter. I am so glad she is here sharing today.

I could not have been more honored when JDaniel4’s Mom asked me to be featured on her Pause Life for a Moment feature. I always love reading her blog and her Muffin Tin Mondays and all the fun activities she does with her son. I hope to be able to be as creative in the learning department once my son is older. JDaniel is going to be such a smart little boy because of his mommy!
Life is such a precious gift make sure to thoroughly enjoy every minute of it. JDaniel4’s Mom thanks for having me over to reflect back on my “pause moments.”
Please take a moment to go and explore From Corporate to Domestic!
By Deirdre

Happy Halloween! We had a spook-tacular Halloween muffin tin meal at our house! JDaniel had pumpkin chili served in a cornbread muffin. He helped cut out apples in a pumpkin shapes. We made pumpkin pie dip for the apples. There were pumpkin orange carrots, orange American cheese sliced into pumpkins and sweet potato tater tots from the frozen food section at the store.
In previous weeks I have featured tins that included more holiday shapes. This week I decided to feature really healthy Halloween foods. Guess what? JDaniel really enjoyed them.
I have included links to the recipes in the paragraph above. I hope you will try they out.
Oh! I didn’t include sugar in my chili!
What are you having for your Halloween meal?
This post is linked to Muffin Tin Monday and my Halloween Traditions link up. If you haven’t had a chance to link up your recipes, crafts, costume pictures or posts on tradition and memories, please do. The link will be open until Nov. 4th.
By Deirdre
Welcome to Read.Explore.Learn.! This meme was designed to be a place for you to share the learning opportunities, crafts, field trips, and other activities you have done this week that tie-in to children’s books. I look forward to seeing ways you have learned with and explored books.
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My Book Tie-Ins of the Week:

How Many Seeds in a Pumpkin? by Margaret McNamara and G. Brian Karas is a wonderful book about counting pumpkins seeds. It turns out you don’t have be the biggest kids in the class to guess the right number of seeds.
Charlie is in the wonderful Mr. Tiffin’s class. Mr. Tiffin challenges his class to guess whether a small, medium, or large pumpkin will have the most seeds. He has the class brainstorm how many seeds are in each pumpkin. When it is Charlie’s turn, he thinks the best guesses are all taken.
The next day the class uses spoon, bowls, and bags they have brought in to scoop, hold, and later throw away the guts and seeds of the pumpkins. Before the students headed home, Mr. Tiffin asked them to think about how to count them.
The next day they decide to count the pumpkin seeds from the big pumpkin by twos. The seeds from the medium pumpkin will be counted by fives it is decided. Charlie thinks the small pumpkin’s seeds should be counted by tens.
After arranging the seeds into number groups, they were counted. The large pumpkin had 170 pairs or 340 seeds. The medium pumpkin has 63 groups or 315 seeds. Charlie had 35 groups or 350 seeds.
Charlie is thrilled to learn that size doesn’t matter in pumpkins. Mr. Tiffen says, “Small things can have a lot going on in them.”
Mr. Tiffin taught me that for each line outside a pumpkin there is a row of seeds inside. Pumpkins that grow longer get darker and gets more lines. Guess what? Charlie’s pumpkin was dark orange and had many more lines than the others.
What did we do?
Cleaning Out Pumpkin Seeds

We cleaned the seeds out of a pumpkin. JDaniel didn’t like the gooey parts.
Counting Seeds

I found a great placemat at Dollar Tree with a grid on it. We placed on seed in each square on the placemat and then counted them.
Cover the Spider Legs Game

We rolled the die to see how many seeds we got to put on each spider leg when it was our turn. It was fun to practice counting. At the end of each turn, we cleared the seeds on the spider.
Roasting Pumpkin Seeds

We tossed pumpkin seeds with olive oil, cinnamon, and sugar and then toasted them in the oven. They came out yummy. JDaniel loved them so much he asked that I take a picture of them.
This post is linked to Feed Me Books Friday, Link and Learn, We Play and It’s Playtime .
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By Deirdre

Mama Kat lists several topics to write about in her Writer’s Workshop each week. One of the ideas for this week was 22 things you have done.
My list of things we have done is going to focus on things we have done for Halloween at our house or the history of Halloween at our house. I am going to tell you a few things have done each year since JDaniel was born.
First Year
Dressed my 7 month old son in a pumpkin costume.
Had my husband and I dress like farmers.
Left my mom at my house to pass out candy while we wheeled JDaniel in his stroller around the neighborhood.
Read the book Redeeming Halloween by Kim Wier and Pam McCune to start thinking about how we wanted to celebrate the holiday.
Decided to pass out baked goods and/or candy to neighbors whose homes we trick or treated to as a way to reach out to neighbors. We passed out cookies with the a message wishing them a blessed Halloween attached to the bag.
Second Year
Had two cute costumes and had JDaniel wear both to different events.

Took JDaniel to a nursing home to attend a Halloween party for seniors and toddlers dressed as a lion’
Started the tradition of carving JDaniel’s pumpkins the day before Halloween.
Learned that he doesn’t like to touch pumpkin pulp.
Dressed him as a dinosaur for a library event and for trick or treating.
Bought a reusable Halloween bag with Frankenstein on it to use as a trick or treat bag.
Started trick or treating with the family next door
Ran from the front of our subdivision with a wet dinosaur when it started pouring.
Third Year
Had JDaniel decide that he didn’t want to wear the costume I bought at a consignment sale.

Decided that his choice of a Dalmatian costume was a great choice.

Coveted the ability one of my friends had to make super cute Halloween cupcakes.
Took JDaniel to Nevin’s farm to go on a hay ride and select a pumpkin.
Discovered my husband could eat as much of JDaniel’s Halloween candy as I could. If I was going to sneak Snickers, I was going to have to do it when we came home from trick or treating.
Fourth Year
Let JDaniel pick out his own robot costume.
Paid full price for a Halloween costume.
Had a robot running around the house in early October when the costume came in.
Tried to make pumpkin soup my family would eat twice.
I hope you enjoyed our family history of Halloween.
What are some of you traditions?
This post is linked to my Halloween Traditions linkup, Mrs. Matlock, and Mama Kat’s Writing Workshop.
By Deirdre

If you buy Halloween candy early when it is on sale, you might bring temptation into the house.
If you hide it in the closet near the computer where you spend time blogging, you maybe able to hear the candy call to you.
If you open the bag to have just one piece, you may create a way for your hand to go into and out of the bag easily.
If your hand goes in the bag repeatedly, the amount of candy in the bag goes down quickly.
If you try to sneak into the candy bag and don’t look to the right and the left before crossing to its hiding place, your son might be slyly watching you.
If your son sees that you now have candy in your hand, you may have to reach in and grab a piece for him.
If you son knows where the candy is hidden, he might tell your husband.
If your husband and son know where the candy is hidden, they might have a candy feast when you leave them alone to run an errand.
If your family has a candy feast, you may find that there is any empty plastic bag in the hiding place.
If all the Halloween candy in your house has been enjoyed two weeks before Halloween, you may have to go to the store and buy more.
If you have a new stash of Halloween candy, you may have to find a new hiding place for it and keep it sealed.
If you here the candy calling to you, you may need to push it further into its hiding place and avoid it like crazy.
I hope you don’t have an early candy intake issue at your house. We haven’t struggled with this at our house before.
This issue may not have come up before because, I have always kept the bags sealed and spent time away from my hiding place. The hall closet was not a good place to hide it this year.
This post is linked to Mrs. Matlock’s Alphabe Thursday!
By Deirdre
I love visit A Wide Line. Her blog is wonderful place. It is beautiful to look at and wonderful to read. Her son Quinn is so cute! I love to read what he is learning and doing. His mom’s thoughts and ideas are inspiring.

Filling Holes

By Deirdre
Welcome to the Halloween Traditions Link Up! I look forward to visiting your posts and taking in your Halloween costumes, Halloween foods, Halloween crafts and traditions or memories.
There are link ups below for your posts . Each family friendly or child related post linked up will need to have a Halloween Traditions badge or a link at the bottom of it pointing back to the Halloween Traditions Link Up. Please don’t link up more than two posts for each area.
Here is the badge:

This link up will be open from Oct. 24th and ends Nov. 2nd
Halloween Costumes
Halloween Recipes
Halloween Crafts
Halloween Traditions and Memories
Please take a moment to visit some of the other links after adding yours!
By Deirdre

Last week’s meal had some untouched foods. This week’s Halloween meal is filled with foods JDaniel liked.
A tortilla with a melted oozing bat shape was the first thing JDaniel took a bite out of.

Then he headed to the sweet potato tater tots. We have tried sweet potato french fries before, but never tater tots. They were really yummy.
Next he had June Clever Nirvana’s Super Easy Pumpkin Soup with Bonus DHA. He wasn’t a huge fan, but did say that it tasted so much better than the pumpkin soup we have made before. I am a huge fan. I ate two bowls for lunch! Yum!
Finally he had apple crisp that was leftover from an event I had to bring a breakfast item to earlier in the week. We were all happy to see that one of the two dishes of apple crisp I made had some left in it. We all love it.
This post is linked to Muffin Tin Monday.
By Deirdre
Welcome to Read.Explore.Learn.! This meme was designed to be a place for you to share the learning opportunities, crafts, field trips, and other activities you have done this week that tie-in to children’s books. I look forward to seeing ways you have learned with and explored books.
Steps:

My Book Tie-Ins of the Week:
The book Moonlight the Halloween Cat by Cynthia Rylant follow a black cat on her evening walk. Along the way she sees all kinds of things that cause her to love Halloween.
Moonlight loves smiles on pumpkins, scarecrows straw laps, children in costumes, and big yellow moons. She loves watch owls and raccoons during there evening travels. She loves houses lit by pumpkin’s inner light when people have gone to bed. She loves the stars that shine and the candy dropped at the door of her house.
Cynthia Rylant’s words and Melissa Sweet’s pictures paint a wonderful picture of the joys of Halloween and none of its freights.
What did we do?
I Spy Through a Cat’s Eyes

I glued a cat’s head to a file folder and cut out its eyes. Then I placed a variety of pictures inside the folder. JDaniel had to guess what each picture was based on the glimpses of the picture he saw through the cat’s eyes.

Paper Plate Cat

We used an old black paper plate to create Moonlight the cat.
This post is linked to Feed Me Books Friday, Link and Learn, We Play and It’s Playtime .